The more you get into a friendship, relationship and the more it is
difficult to turn this friendship into dating. Nevertheless, we have
only one life and you may have regret not to try dating your best male
friend. Most of the time in real life, best friends are made to be
couples but there are psychological boundaries that prevent it. In fact,
people are scared that dating could break up friendship.
For those
people, i would like to say: When you will be 50 years old, and you will
be married the wrong guy with 2 children, when you will be bored in
your couple, you will look back upon your life, and you will understand
you missed something very important. You will try to start over your
life in your mind but things will be gone for ever. People today act
like they have a second chance. Life never gives a second chance. You
will not stay with people from High School all your life. You will not
stay with University students all your life. When you are 25 years old,
it means you are only 5 years away from 30 years. When you are 35 years
old it means you are 5 years away from 40.
In this context, you must act fast. I suggest to invite your best
friend to your house. you have to be in a one to one situation. Isolate
him. You have to bring him to a closed place where nobody can get
in. Get rid of inhibitions using alcohol. Let me tell you why i am
speaking about alcohol. As i said before it is more difficult to turn a
friendship than dating a stranger because human kind is scared to hurt a
friend. However, if you follow what people think, you will do nothing.
Thus, everything can help.
Use something to distract him like a movie.
You should avoid formal situations where you seat in front of him and
where there is nothing else to distract his mind. In this situation, he
may be scared, if you tell him your intentions. I would suggest to tell
him you have a nice movie. Ask him to come to your house, then bring
glasses of white wine and after the second one you can jump on him.
White wine is better than beer because it is stronger. It also does not
bypass normal physiological body functioning. I calculated you can jump
on him after the second glass.
Be pro-active, don’t expect anything from anybody else. Don’t use any
intermediaries. Plan everything in your mind from the time when he will
arrive to the time, you will perhaps be in a bed together. Sort
everything for your plan to succeed.
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