First of all, don’t mention you want to date a male coworker to
anyone at the office. I witnessed several times that the biggest
barriers to a man, are its relatives but it is not the man itself. Lots
of people could jealous to see you with someone from the office. Female
or male coworkers can be jealous to see you with a coworker. Also, other
coworkers may smile to you and be in fact very much jealous of you.
This is also one of my major. Never let anyone between yourself and a
man. There should be also no intermediaries. Dating a man involve only
two people. When we see in movies that friends or coworkers help to put
two people together, i laugh. This scenario never happens in real life.
You are the only one who can pick up a man from office.
Try to gather as many information as you can about this particular
male coworker. First of all you have to get his full surname and get as
many personal details as you can. For instance, try googling his name
like like the following: “john doe” in order to know if he is part of
associations or sport clubs. I also know girls who create a facebook
profile with a pen name and asked to be friends of their “target” in
order to access his facebook timeline. Take your time, don’t rush before
meeting this man. By better knowing him, it will also help you to ease
the conversation with him when you will date him. Gather as much
information as you. Once you are ready, meet him outside the office and
try to find a time when he is own his own. This is the isolation rule.
The goal is to be able to meet him outside the office. Meeting
someone outside the office have lots of good sides. You don’t take any
risks regarding your career. People are different when they are at work
and in private networks.
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